I agree. I felt mom guilt for getting therapy before my kids during divorce, but I had to put the oxygen mask on first. My kids need a healthy mother. I heard someone say this, and I agree—kids don’t do what you tell them to do, they do what you do. As a parent, I am the model. If I tell them to eat healthy but don’t do it myself, they’ll mirror my habits, not my hypocrisy.
I understand this one more than you know. It’s important to inspire through leading, but it’s paramount to continue to facilitate, guide & challenge decision making as best you can too. Sincerely, a son.
If you accept that the state of the world is a reflection of your choices, then you know there’s work to be done and the battleground of your future awaits.
I agree. I felt mom guilt for getting therapy before my kids during divorce, but I had to put the oxygen mask on first. My kids need a healthy mother. I heard someone say this, and I agree—kids don’t do what you tell them to do, they do what you do. As a parent, I am the model. If I tell them to eat healthy but don’t do it myself, they’ll mirror my habits, not my hypocrisy.
I understand this one more than you know. It’s important to inspire through leading, but it’s paramount to continue to facilitate, guide & challenge decision making as best you can too. Sincerely, a son.
If you accept that the state of the world is a reflection of your choices, then you know there’s work to be done and the battleground of your future awaits.
Powerful piece Lachie! I LOVE this sentence. 👌